About 6 months ago, one of my good friends told me about the hottest make out I had heard about in a while. My friend flirted with her from afar, admitted his attraction, she came over to hang out, and he decided to slowly follow the spark with her.
They started making out and then when it was
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She lit up with every next admission of her desire. Then, there came a moment when they felt totally saturated and she didn’t want anything else and the make out was over. When he told me about it the next day, you could feel the turn-on radiating off his body (plus, he was sporting a grin from ear to ear).
“What do you want?” is such a simple question and yet, it is the key to unlocking a woman’s pleasure in the bedroom (and in the rest of her life, too). And you know if she’s happy in the bedroom, so are you. Let her desire be your guide. Yes, you have desires and needs too. Don’t get rid of them. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do. Hold on to what you want. Your desires are sexy and we love them.
But when you feel a make out come to a screeching
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Look into her eyes and ask her lovingly but firmly, “What do you want?”
